When a girl meets a new guy, one of the first things she thinks about is whether or not he's going to be exciting in the bedroom. Like, you know that feeling when you're sitting at a table in front of him and can't really focus because you're wondering how good of a lover he is. Well, I have good news for you! You don't actually have to sleep with a guy to be able to tell how good of a lover he's going to be. Here are ten questions that will help you figure out whether or not he can rock your world.
1. Does he hold eye contact?
When a guy looks at you in this special way... you'll feel it, it's the best thing ever. You know when you get butterflies in your stomach from the way he stares at you? Like, to the point where you get a bit uncomfortable. That's the look that tells you you're in for a treat, girl.
2. Is he a good dancer?
It sounds cheesy, but it's true. It doesn't mean your guy needs to be a professional dancer or anything. If he's feeling the rhythm and is not awkward on the dance floor, that's a good indication of how he's going to move in and around your bed.
3. Is he a fantastic kisser?
If his kisses make you weak in the knees, chances are he's going to surprise you in the bedroom as well. Do you feel the chemistry when you kiss? Yes? Then it's pretty much a safe bet to assume that you will connect in the bedroom as well. Passionate kissers make great lovers.
4. Does he brag about his sexual conquests?
Girl, stay away from the dudes who brag about how good they are in bed. Think about it. Do you really need to brag about something you're good at? Actions speak louder than words. Always. A guy who's confident in his own skills will not feel the need to prove it by stating the obvious.
5. Is he a good cook?
There is an odd correlation between food and sexuality. Guys that can appreciate exquisite tastes or that can cook well are usually as passionate in the bedroom department as well. It might have to do with the fact that both food and bed matters are primal human instincts. As a matter of fact, it can also apply to women. This is my own observation and is, by no means, a scientific fact.
6. What kind of eater is he?
Pay attention to the way he eats when you're at a restaurant or something. Does he have good appetite? Is he a picky eater or is he open to new things? Does he take his time to finish a meal? If you barely had time to have a first bite and he's already done with his dish, there are very good chances that he will rush through your love session as well. He doesn't take his time to savor his food, why would he take his time to savor a moment in the bedroom? You feeling me?
7. Does he dress well?
If he dresses well - great. But if he dresses too well, then you might not necessarily have the time of your life in his bedroom. We all want a man who looks good, obviously. However, when a man takes more time to get ready than we do, it can only mean one thing. He's too into himself. These kinds of guys often act selfish. They are more concerned with looking good while rocking your world than actually rocking your world. He won't lose himself in the heat of the moment that's for sure.
8. Does he talk with his hands?
I always pay attention to guy's hands. Beautiful hands are such a turn on, ugh. In addition, a guy who moves his hands when he talks is: 1. fascinating to look at and 2. expressive, obviously. If he's using his hands to convey his feelings or emotions when he's having a conversation, imagine all the other areas he would want to physically express himself at. *wink wink*
9. Is he down to try new things?
Is he spontaneous and easy going? What happens if you ask him to join you to try a new activity, like the pirate ship obstacle course in the Old Port or something. If he goes, "Ew, that's for kids", then you know he's not really adventurous and he likes to stick to things he's more comfortable with.
10. Is he confident?
When a confident guy asks you out, he sounds something like "I'll pick you up at 7, be ready. We're going to that new spot that just opened on Notre-Dame" instead of "What time will you be ready? Do you need me to pick you up?" Confidence says so much about the way he will act in the bedroom. Guys, girls LOVE confidence! Take initiative, be proactive, be an alpha-male and you'll have her wrapped around your finger. It's so easy.