Yesterday, I wrote a post about the kind of Montreal guys you should stay away from. It got quite a reaction. People said things like - yeah, but not ALL guys are bad! Of course not ALL Montreal guys are bad. Our city is also home to men who are wonderful and totally marriage worthy. I'd like to talk about these kinds of guys today. Hopefully, it will put a smile on your face and convince you that there is, indeed, a light at the end of the dating tunnel. Without further ado, I present to you ten signs that you've finally found the one.
1. You trust each other
When he goes out with his friends, you don't sit there wondering if he's going to be flirting with other girls. You trust him and he trusts you. The idea of him possibly being attracted to someone else doesn't even occur to you.
2. You support each other
You support each other even in the silliest, most ridiculous ideas ever. You feel like becoming a business woman and selling handmade forks for a living? He will have your back. You're going through tough times with your family? He will be there for you. No matter what the two of you are going through, you always have each other's backs.
3. He makes you a better person
You feel an irresistible urge to be a better person when you're with him. You want to look good, do awesome things and generally be the best version of yourself. You don't want to let him down, because he believes in you enough to want to spend his life with you.
4. You have the same life vision
It's really important to look in the same direction with your partner. Make sure that your life priorities are in line. If both of you value the same things, like family and friends for example, then you're definitely on the right path. If he's more into going out and you want to settle down, you might want to reconsider your relationship.
5. He knows everything about you and still chooses to love you
He knows you're not perfect. He has seen you at your worst, but still chooses to love you. Your man would want to hug and kiss you even if you have morning breath and look like shit.
6. You can really feel comfortable in his company
You're not stressed about looking good or saying all the right things with him. Finally, you found someone you can just relax and be yourself with. He's not going to judge you if you act goofy or silly around him, he'll actually find it adorable.
7. He laughs at your jokes
Sense of humor is so important in any relationship. If the two of you laugh at the same things, it's a match made in heaven. Bonus points if he finds you really funny and laughs at your silly jokes. It's just so wonderful.
8. You have inside jokes and little things only the two of you understand
Do you have a special handshake or maybe cute names you give each other that no one else knows? These little things make the two of you so freaking cute. Ughhhhhh...
9. You know how to manage conflicts well
It's completely normal for couples to fight. What separates good couples from bad ones is their ability to make up afterwards. If you keep your fights light and make up sessions hot, then the two of you rock!
10. You really, unconditionally love him
You love him so much, you literally don't understand how you could live without him before and he feels the same for you.