Leaving someone is always something hard to do. After the first few days, you wonder what you did wrong and if everything was your fault. You even ask yourself if you're ever going to meet someone else that will love you, and when you do meet that new person you can't help yourself but compare him to your ex.
Then you realize you're happy that you are no longer with your ex because it allowed you to meet someone way better to spend the rest of your life with.
1. Your new boyfriend is so much better than your ex because he doesn't weigh you down.
Some people after dating for a long time, start to take people for granted. Yes, it's okay to be there for them when they need you but when their negativity starts to bring you down too, it's a sign that there is something wrong in your relationship. Luckily, you're not with that person anymore and you can focus on the good things with your new boyfriend.
2. Your new boyfriend is so much better than your ex because he checks on you all the time.
Ok, maybe not every 2 seconds but if your new bae texts you back or asks how your day was then you already knows he's better than your ex. I agree, maybe your Ex was the kind of person who wasn't good with technology, but it isn't rocket science to pick up the phone once in a while and ask you about your day.
3. Your new boyfriend is so much better than your ex because when he fights with you, it doesn't mean he wants your relationship to end.
When you were dating your Ex, have you ever had the feeling that even a little fight with him would be his opportunity to leave you? You were constantly living in fear that anything could break the both of you. But now that you're dating someone different and new, you know that even if you have a huge fight, the both of you can always work it out and make compromises that benefit the both of you. It shows that your new boyfriend is way mature than your ex and that makes him the best.
4. Your new boyfriend is so much better than your ex because he wants you to meet his parents.
The days of dating at night in a sketchy place when no one else is around are over! Meeting your boyfriend's parents is a pretty big step in a relationship and it shows that he is committed to you. If your Ex never wanted you to hang out at his place or even meet his friends, it probably means he didn't really are about your relationship.
5. Your new boyfriend is so much better than your ex because he likes it when you're being honest.
With your new boyfriend, you don't have to hide your feelings anymore. If you had a shitty day, he won't mind if you tell him because he'll definitely try to find a way to make it even better.
6. Your new boyfriend is so much better than your ex because he knows what he wants in life.
Maybe your boyfriend don't know exactly what he wants to be later and he wants to live day by day, but at least you know he has goals in life that will take him far. It's always nice to see someone who has a passion for something and is really motivated to achieve their dream instead of someone who dropped out of school and watches tv all day. Unlike with your Ex, you know that your new boyfriend wants you to be part of his future.
7. Your new boyfriend is so much better than your ex because he makes you want to be a better person.
He makes you discover things you never knew existed and motivates you to do your best every day. With him, you are able to get out of your comfort zone and challenge every obstacle you face. That is the beauty of being in a relationship, the other person makes you feel invincible like nothing is impossible. He, unlike your ex, believes in you and let you dream big, without ever judging you.That is the beauty of being in a relationship, the other person makes you feel invincible like nothing is impossible. He, unlike your ex, believes in you and let you dream big, without ever judging you.
8. Your new boyfriend is so much better than your ex because he truly loves you.
He's not dating you only for meaningless sex or because he's scared of being alone. He dates you because of who you are. Even if he doesn't have a lot, he would give you everything he has just to make you happy because your happiness is also his.